10 Myths about Butt Sex

If you are confused over why are we discussing myths about anal sex, the answer is that many people are skeptical about it. Many even refrain from indulging in it because of the various myths that float around this particular topic.

So, here we are with the most typical myths people have about this topic and the actual truth that nobody knows along with it!

1. The myth: It hurts

The truth: Anal sex is often done incorrectly and hence it hurts. For many women, it gives incredible pleasure and even results in great orgasm. The key to it is to start slow, work your way up by the insertion of smaller implements like a finger, a sex toy and with plenty of lube. Lube will win your way to the glory hole.

2. The myth: If it hurts once, it will always hurt

The truth: First time you did, it hurt badly. Ok. But you do not need to shut the backdoor forever. Most of the negative experiences occur because of not following the proper instructions: We always emphasize ongoing slow, using lube and gradually increasing the size of the foreign object inside anal.

Tip: A nice trick is to stimulate your clitoris while experiencing anal, it gives pleasure to your pain

3. The myth: Anal is for sluts

The truth: Anal sex has been voted as number one taboo sexual behavior amongst heterosexual couples. So, they all can’t be sluts. Anal sex is a natural curiosity of our body and if it involves pleasure, you should feel and go for it. It can be experienced in a safe and healthy way.

4. The myth: He won’t respect you the same.

The truth: You can always hear people saying, “He always kept pestering you for anal and now that he got it, he won’t treat you the same”. And this is also the most common feeling experienced by the woman, however, most men are modern enough and consider backdoor entry as an addition to the regular sex life.

5. The myth: You can skip condoms for anal sex

The truth: Just because there is no pregnancy scare doesn’t mean that the condom can go off. Condoms are used to avoid not only pregnancy but also STD’s like (chlamydia, ggonorrhea infectious hepatitis, and HIV) The lining of the anus is much thinner and can be broken more easily if too much dry friction occurs so use plenty of lube and don’t forget condoms.

Also read: How peeing after sex can prevent UTI in women?

6. The myth: It will damage the ass forever

The truth: Anything related with “Sex” if done the ‘wrong way’ could cause long term damage. Imagine if you have a dry vagina and you start thrusting, it will cause micro-tears in the vagina. The same can happen with Anal sex. We consider the fact that vagina has natural lubrication but that simply means that one needs to use real lubricant for anal sex to have a safe and healthy experience.

7. The myth: Your anus will get all stretched

The truth: Biggest misconception similar to the one where people say vagina gets irreparably stretched out of childbirth. It is a myth. With regular anal sex, your anus learns to become more relaxed to the experience which is related to your mental act of control. Similar to how, vagina can take a wide range of penises; anus can too – if done in proper stages.

8. The myth: It gets dirty

The truth: The ultimate concern for every first timer is the bowel movement during Anal sex. Faeces aren’t sorted in rectum – it just passes through during the bowel moment. So, a simple enema can help, to make it squeaky clean. Anal sex requires a little more care and affection than regular sex. Be gentle and use lube. And in case you are planning for entry to both holes. Always go for Vaginal and then Anal because even a slightest of faecal material in the vagina can cause infection and if you still insist on having vaginal after anal make sure to wash with antimicrobial soap before making entry.

9. The myth: Homosexuals engage in Anal sex

The truth: Anyone can enjoy receiving anal sex (if properly prepared), and it has no link to sexual orientation. There are lots of nerve endings which can be stimulated and be pleasurable for both sexes. Men can also enjoy the stimulation of prostate via anal penetration.

10. The myth: It makes men re-think about their sexuality

The truth: Just because a guy loves anal sex won’t make him gay. Just for having a certain preference someone can’t change their sexual orientation, guaranteed. If the woman and the man involved in the activity enjoy it then there shouldn’t be a problem.

We really hope, we help you release some stress around the backdoor entry. If you have any questions about it. You can write to us at